Why does AFL Live suck??? and why are my players never the man in front?

I don't get it I mean who made this game because I tackle teams like literally 80 times in a 20 minute match and the are like 4 free kicks for both sides at the end of the game. So like 160 tackles and 8 free kicks I mean WTF!!! and there is no holding the man rule so they tackle me after I handball or kick it away then they through me to the ground and push my face in the dirt when they are getting up. And how come I am never the man in front like when I have the ball I kick to a player and the opposition are practically leading instead. Because of this I can never stop them working it up the ground. but is there any way I can make the game more like actual gameplay not just tackle ball up and then chase the ball rolling on the ground and have them tackle you strait away because every player has the same pace even if there like short player take on tall player. It's bullsh*t I want a more realistic game what do you think they should do to fix this game?